Start Conversation

Say, you meet a woman in a bar, or a college campus or in a social gathering and you feel an urge talking with her, while knowing the fact that you hardly get a chance meeting her next time if you don’t take the opportunity right away. At this point, never play with your passion only. Be cool and initiate a conversation with her. Try exploring her and finding out mutual interests between you and the woman. You can be confident about the fact that there must be something common; the only requirement is that you have to spot it carefully. You can begin your conversation with a simple introduction initially. You can continue your conversation with a few casual flirty smiles. However, you have all the chances that the woman can ignore you or you may even find her not worthy for dating as well.

Here is a simple guideline that you can follow during the conversation session:

•	Take the initiatives: It is better that you don’t waste time for others to begin conversation. You start talking. Introduce yourself decently, but not boasting up anything about you. The other person typically experiences a sense of relief when you make the initiatives. There are some rare events when the other persons are not pleased even when you take the initiatives. However, you know that you did best to act as a friend. So it is their problem if they are unable to accommodate themselves with your friendliness.
•	Be attentive on the environment: If you become over-sensitive about your impression, it may turn out the situation more complicated for you. Remember, one is able to fabricate better impression being engaged than by boasting up all the time. Prior initiating discussion on any new topic, you should focus your attention over immediate situation you are encountering, whether the topic you would like to bring into focus is suitable for this particular situation or not.
•	Try to Be Positive: Don’t promote negative thinking. Don’t talk using negative words. People whom you are not known to may feel truly uncomfortable and worried about all those negative conversations.