The 9 Dangerous Mistakes Men Make with Women
1. Act being excessively nice
Many guys do this mistake. They simply try their best to project themselves excessively nice to women. But statistics say majority of truly attractive women feel attracted to men who are 'not' so nice. It does not really matter how 'nice' the men are able to project them in real, women primarily put their emphasis on the gut level of the men of attraction. So, being nice or acting nice does not necessarily mean that the women will feel attracted to you.
2. Put effort to induce her to like him
Many guys do this mistake. They simply try to convince the women to like them. In other words, they try to induce the feelings of a woman. But the hard fact is that no matter what you do, you can not change the way a woman feels especially when it is all about attraction. So, before inducing anything on her, simply think and rethink over it. If a woman does not feel for you, there is nothing on earth you can do to change her mind and force her to like you. Simply nothing!
3. Asking for inappropriate approval
In the desire to please a woman, many guys commit this mistake. This is a horrible mistake ever. These guys feel that taking permission or getting approval from a woman in all aspects can make a woman happy. This is absolutely a wrong idea. Women never feel attracted to these types of guys who ask their approval by all means. It does not necessarily mean that you need to behave rudely or mistreat a woman to like you, but asking for permission in all aspects never works. In fact, typically a woman feels irritated when she finds that the man is asking for her approval all the times.
4. Trying to 'purchase' her love and care with food and gifts
Again a majority of guys do this mistake. The love, affection and care of a woman is not so materialistic all the time (or you could say even more materialistic than you could be able to imagine actually), that you could easily buy them all for your satisfaction. In many cases, offering good foods or gifts may end up in rejection as well. Women may perceive these attempts as a weakened compensation for insecurity from a guy's end and she may reject this idea as a contemptible form of manipulation.
5. Inquiring about the inner feeling at earliest stage
This is one of the biggest mistakes that many men do. Attractive women are not so plenty. So they receive sufficient attention from many guys. They are well-experienced in dealing with guys who like them. Quite interestingly, since an attractive woman knows well about the possible expectation, she may intensely dislike the idea of sharing thoughts concerning inner feelings in the earlier phases of a date, say about within one or two weeks after first meeting.
6. Inadequate understanding of individual differences in attraction factor
There is a strong gender-wise difference among women and men, especially when it comes about attraction factor. When a guy comes across a young, beautiful and attractive woman, he immediately feels attracted towards her. The majority of his attraction covers up with sexual attraction as well. But women do not get so easily attracted all the time. They find attraction considering certain qualities in a man. A guy must know how to use his verbal and non-verbal cues to make the woman feel attracted towards him.
7. Considering only money and look matters
Many guys make this mistake and resign from the game even before they actually start up. They think it is only money and appearance that make guys attracted to the attractive women. But this is not always the same. A majority of the women actually feel attracted to the personality of a man than his purse or appearance. Think twice.
8. Giving away all the power to the women to rule
As mentioned before that it is not a good idea to ask approval from women all the time since it may result in adverse consequences. Same is true here as many guys simply give the entire control of their lives to the woman's hand simply to please her. These types of guys simply do whatever they can do to make the women happy. This is another dangerous mistake. In most of the cases, women simply walk-over on it.
9. Inadequate information regarding how to deal with women in every context
Women have higher level of intuitive knowledge compared to men. For example, if you are out for a date and you are about to kiss the girl, you can be certain of that she knows about it. Women can read non-verbal cues better than a man. However, if you are confused enough how to proceed and watching at her and become nervous, there is no way that she ever offers you any solution. You should know how to play safe. You must be aware of each and every step you are making in order to ensure the progress. Otherwise, it is quite possible that you will lose the game.